Dating is not exclusive to singles; it holds immense importance for couples too.

A lot of Nigerian couples don’t go on dates after getting married, and maybe this is due to cultural reasons.

Engaging in dates as a couple is an important step to promote expectations and strengthen the sense of commitment within the relationship.

Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you plan the perfect outdoor dinner date

1. Choose the Location

Select a scenic and comfortable outdoor location. It could be a beach, a park, your backyard, or even a rooftop with a nice view.

2. Check the Weather

Make sure to check the weather forecast for the date.

You want to ensure a pleasant evening without unexpected rain or extreme temperatures.

3. Set the Date and Time

Decide on the date and time for your outdoor dinner.

Sunset can be a particularly beautiful time for an evening meal.

4. Create the Feel

Enhance the atmosphere with soft lighting. Use fairy lights, candles, or lanterns to create a warm and intimate ambiance.

If possible, set up a cozy seating area with blankets or cushions.

5. Plan the Menu

Select a menu that includes your wife’s favorite dishes. Consider easy-to-eat options for an outdoor setting. You could prepare a picnic-style meal with appetizers, a main course, and dessert.

6. Bring a Blanket and Picnic Mats

If it’s a picnic date, make sure to bring a soft blanket to ensure comfort and picnic mats to sit on. This adds a touch of comfort to your outdoor setting.

If you’re in Abuja, you should consider Millennium Park for a great couples’ outing. Weekdays are recommended to avoid crowds.”

7. Choose the Right Dinner Table

Go for practical and stylish dinner tables and beautiful table napkins. Don’t forget to bring a bottle opener if you’re planning to enjoy some wine.

8. Personal Touches

Add personal touches to the setup.

Think about bringing a small bouquet of flowers; include items that hold sentimental value, such as a customized necklace or a new ring; her favorite snacks and books.

Also, include a handwritten note expressing your feelings.

9. Select Music

Create a playlist of your wife’s favorite songs or choose music that suits the ambiance. Soft, romantic tunes can enhance the overall experience.

10. Coordinate Attire

Let your wife know the suggested dress code for the evening.

Whether it’s casual chic or semi-formal, when you coordinate attire it adds a special touch to the occasion, it shows care and consideration.

11. Plan Entertainment

If the location allows, plan some entertainment.

It could be a board game, a book of poems, or simply stargazing together.

In the section on Personal Touches (number 8), I suggested adding her favorite books to the mix. You can enjoy reading them together while snacking.

12. Handle Logistics

Plan the logistics carefully.

If you need to travel to the location, consider transportation options.

Make sure you have all the essentials packed, including insect repellent if you’re in an area prone to bugs.

13. Capture the Moment

Bring a camera or use your smartphone to capture the special moments.

Whether it’s a photo of the sunset or a candid shot of your wife, these memories will be cherished.

14. Be Flexible

Be prepared for unexpected changes.

Weather or other factors might require adjustments to your plan, so stay flexible and focus on enjoying the time together.

15. Clean Up Responsibly

After the dinner, be sure to clean up responsibly.

Pack away all items, dispose of any waste properly, and leave the outdoor space as beautiful as you found it.

Remember, the most important aspect of the date is to create a thoughtful and memorable experience for your wife.

Tailor the details to her preferences, and your effort and consideration will make the evening truly special.

This guide is not meant to be used by men only. Women too can make use of this guide.